You don't meet people by mistake

I'm a firm believer that everyone you build connections with serves a purpose. Whether it be platonic, romantic, workplace connections, even random places while you're just out and about. At this phase in my life, I've become a loner I often get overstimulated in crowded places from isolating so much. Every once in a while, I come across people I know serve a stronger purpose than others. I feel the people I connect with deeper in my darkest times hold a more valuable purpose. Reflecting back, I realized a lot of people I thought would be in my life forever really only were supposed to be here for season of my life. As I started my healing journey, matured, expanded my mind, and became sick and tired of being sick and tired of my own shit I lost those old people in my life. Some people only "loved me" when I was fucking up and doing bad for myself. Some people came in my life to bring me pain, heartbreak, show me what I want out of love and friendship and what I don't want. That was their purpose to teach me about myself and help me learn to create boundaries, standards, self-love, and learn my worth. One thing I learned through experience is I believe the energy you put out into the world is what you attract in other people there is a lesson through it all. I took a chance recently and started a new job doing something I've never done but still in the medical field and I have met coworkers that I formed tight bonds with. We clicked instantly and they match me similarly energetically, mentally, my spiritual beliefs, they are supportive, motivating, open minded, and we all learn from each other. The energy is warming, welcoming, and feels like a family atmosphere. It was at that moment I knew we were all at the right place at the right time and our paths crossed at the perfect timing on our journeys. I met and created bonds with them because during this phase in my life I needed them in certain ways and in some way, they needed me as well.

This post was inspired by the new connections and bonds I created with the ladies Nancy, Amanda, Maryjane, and Taina that started off as just new coworkers, but I know are meant and sent into my life on divine timing to become so much more than that. I connect with them all differently but in the exact way God intended. And for that I will be forever thankful.